N.ew Orle.ans SA.INTS WIN!!!

WE WON! *sniff*

We won the damn Super Bowl baby! It's been too damn long i had to wait.

Great game from both teams.

Ma.rdi Gr.as parades were canceled today. That hasn't happen since WWII cuz........

WE WON THE FUCKING SUP.ERBO.WL WOOHOO!!!

The SA.INTS vs The COL.TS in the SUPER.BOWL!!

I'm in football heaven. Yeehaw!!!

Pa.tto.n Man.ning's daddy Archie quartebacked for the SA.INTS and those boys grew up in around NEW OR.LEANS.

HELP FIND ISABELLA MILLER-JENKINS

http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=251765214097&ref=mf


ISABELLA WAS ORDERED BY THE COURT TO BE TURNED OVER TO HER NON-BIO MOM,BUT HER BIO MOM HAS NOT DONE SO AND HAS BEEN MISSING FOR OVER A MONTH.

HELP GET HER BACK TO HER OTHER MOTHER!!!!

*BLOGGERS PLEASE ADD THIS FACEBOOK LINK TO YOUR PAGE.

Hogwash!

It's started. All the well wishes for 2010." I hope 2010 brings you the desires of your heart". I hope 2010 is brings this and that." I know they mean well.

Basically they hope that when the hands of a clock strike midnight that my life will magically transform into the cooperative journey where my wish is the earths command. And every year it's the same damn thing said.New Years day will be another day of the week followed by a weekend headed toward the end of the month.

Why can't i have it now? Why can't i have it today,this minute? Why do i have to wait until 12:01am December 2009 for things to change in my favor? What can happen then ,can happen now.

All the celebrating and hoopla to celebrate what? I'd just as well prefer 2010 come in quietly unless i have a guarantee or whatever.

I wish they would just shut up!

Nawlins SA.INT.S

Well last night the SA.IN.TS turned in another victory over the New England Patriots on Monday night football. This season makes only the second winning season for what use to be the AIN'TS since I've been alive.And i thought I'd never see the day.

My bio dad is a die hard SAINTS fan with season tickets. My sister 2 yrs younger and I went to every home game or watched them play on TV since we were knee high to a bullfrog.lol We would literally cry every Sunday when they loss and ask daddy "why can't they ever win boo hoo". And he'd always say a real fan doesn't throw in the towel,because there is always next Sunday. Well damn those Sunday losses rolled right over Archie Manning and the others for yearrrrssss. Remember the brown bags over the head. My dad said they were a disgrace.

Fair weathered fan or not it's nice to see them winning now and have my BFF in Little Rock calling me up and asking " did you see that????"

And by the way GEAUX LS.U football Tigers!

Pleased as punch brunch

Well ladies i decided to go ahead and goto the brunch with a group of queer parents in my area. The hostess did quickly respond by asking me if i had kids. I laughed out loud and thought well here's a door opening to get some things out in the open.

I told her that i had some apprehensions about going and that according to the responses from others who even had partners and kids they weren't enthusiastic either. I also suggested that if it was a prerequisite for attending these functions that it should stated so us child-less types can stay home.

I got there early as usual and met the family and there very energetic kids. One by one all the others arrived and let their kids loose to enjoy the oh so kid friendly ground floor of the brownstone. The host kids took a quick liking to me why i don't know,but the two girls seem to enjoy my witty charm and bad jokes.lol I guess that's why one mom asked how long i had been with the family. I said " i don't live here". She said," oh so you're a live out nanny?" I said," Actually I'm not the nanny and only just met these kids today". She quickly apologized and I'm sure i could have nail her to the wall based on her presumption that ran purely along racial lines that i was the hired help. It wasn't a battle i was interested in fighting.

I did however got to meet fellow bloggers The Commune Child, The Family O, Zebah,Zazie and the zoo and their sweet little ones. Overall a good time looked to be had by everyone. The kids had lots of fun and the adults did their best, while icing boo boos, encouraging sharing lol and cleaning up spills,crumbs and cleaning snotty noses to engage in meaningful adult conversation as well. Now to get those gay boys and their kids to come out of hiding.

"I don’t really care what people think about me" ..

She said....
I've heard women make this feminist proclamation a few times over the years. And each time i hear it said i giggle a little ,because in my mind it's those that say these things with such firm conviction are often the ones who care a lot about what other people think. They say this out loud to convince themselves that it's true.lol


imo as you get older and the stakes are higher such as playdates for your kids, SAHM buddies for your SAHM, warm and fuzzy PTA meetings ,etc. you'll find that what others think about you affects the ones who care about you.


If parents in the neighborhood think you're the village loon do you think they'll invite your kid to sleepovers? If you dress like Cindy lauper in her heyday and even Cindy doesn't dress like that any more ,do you think the hateful remarks by the other kids at school to your child won't make you care what others think? I say you will,because it's not about just you any more.

And when you couldn't find a healthy relationship if it jumped up and bit you in the butt ,then i think you should care enough about what friends and a professional think to get help to fix that problem too.